Fabulous Friday: Gold Medal Edition

Happy Friday! I’m back and ready to start posting more regularly again. Thanks to Alan Scott for his willingness to step in and write so much in the past couple of weeks.

It’s been a good Friday so far. The U.S. Women’s National Team took the gold in yesterday’s soccer match with Japan. I guess they weren’t satisfied with taking the hearts of baby queermos everywhere.

You might have a heart of gold, but Megan Rapinoe would still eat it.

Out WNT midfielder Megan Rapinoe and girlfriend Sarah Walsh bite down on Rapinoe’s gold medal.

If you shipped same-sex Disney pairings as a child (guilty as charged), this Rodolfo Loaiza gallery pairing characters like Belle and Jasmine will make you happy. Check it out on Buzzfeed.

We’re big comics fans here at QueerPHC. I’m obviously partial to Batwoman (if you like comics and haven’t read Batwoman: Elegy, stop everything you are doing and read it now), but I also faithfully read each new issue of Batgirl every month. At ComicBookBin, J. Skyler makes the case for Batgirl being a prominent gay and feminist icon in comics. A few excerpts here:

I am a transgender woman, meaning that I am a genetic male (xy) whose gender identity or self-perceived sense of self is female. Since I have not chosen to undergo sex reassignment surgery (transsexual is a medical term indicating whether an individual is in the pre-operative or post-operative stage of SRS, whereas transgender is used to describe gender identity regardless of one’s surgical status) and since I am exclusively attracted to men, it’s natural to look at me and assume I am simply a gay male…. As a child, I was aware of the fact that I saw myself as a girl at age 4. I knew I was different from other children, even though I didn’t understand why at the time. I modeled myself after women I loved, my mother first and foremost. Being a fanatical lover of animation, fantasy and superheroes, fictional characters were some of my earliest role models and continue to be to this day. I remember being 5 or 6 years old flipping through the channels and coming across the opening credits of the 1960s Batman television series…. Just as I was about to turn the channel, Batgirl swung across the screen on the line of her grappling hook, kicking a villain in the chest….From that day forward, Batgirl was a model of femininity, intelligence and righteous fury that continues to drive me.

This Autostraddle article (and accompanying documentary short) on how gender identity and presentation affect one’s personal style is my new favorite thing in the history of things. The documentary is called “gender, bespoke.”

I’m a big believer in the sort of mantra of like, all gender is drag, so I definitely think of getting dressed as a drag performance.

- gender, bespoke

As someone who is genderqueer but who is nearly always read as female, this documentary really resonated with me. My clothing can be a source of great stress or great comfort to me. It’s a constant balancing act between representing who and what I feel like that day, and sometimes having to meet social expectations for what I should wear in a given situation. As a working professional, I try to make compromises between my personal identity and professional appearance. Gender, for me, is a fluid thing. Sometimes I feel masculine. Sometimes I feel feminine. Sometimes I feel androgynous or gender-neutral. Sometimes I feel like a girl who feels like a boy who feels like a girl who feels like a boy. There are days where I dress to my comfort zone (generally casual and androgynous or slightly masculine-of-center) and days where I go for a more tailored or femme look, with a blazer, high heels and a pencil skirt.

Tumblr of the Week:

Because I’m still obsessing over the Women’s National Team’s gold medal win, I’m going to feature my longtime crush, Abby Wambach. The way Wambach motivates and inspires her teammates is always touching to watch.

Plus, there is this .gif, which makes me fall off my chair laughing.

Song of the Week:

I know I’m about two weeks late on this one, but Todrick Hall’s “CinderFella” is fun and worth a watch.

Olympic Obsession!

Hello all!

I know I have been totally absent lately; my life has been busier than what most normal

Jacob Dalton

I swear, he’s not the only reason I watch gymnastics . . . really!

people have a tolerance for, but then again who ever said I was normal?

Of course, in addition to all the fun I’ve been having in life in general, there’s also been this thing going on over in London that I feel compelled to read about and watch whenever I have a spare moment . . . some events more than others. Honestly, I’m a much bigger fan of the winter Olympics. But there is something so fun and exciting and emotional about watching all these people gather together in one place and demonstrate such amazing feats of athleticism!

I’ve REALLY been into following the men’s and women’s gymnastics, the equestrian, and the swimming events. What I find really interesting is seeing countries that are not necessarily “associated” with a sport come out and win a medal, like Saudi Arabia nabbing a bronze in the jumping events.

How about you guys? Anyone else out there completely obsessed with Olympic glory? Any particular events that you simply can’t miss?

U.S. Beats Canada in Women’s Soccer Semifinal, Closeted PHC Soccer Fans Rejoice

You guys. Thanks to the four goals scored by the lovely Alex Morgan, Abby Wambach, and out midfielder Megan Rapinoe, the U.S. Women’s National Team has advanced to the gold medal match against Japan.

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I think this calls for a PHC-friendly toast of your favorite [non-alcoholic] beverage.

Fabulous Friday: August 4th, 2012 (A Saturday)

Happy August! This is an exciting mile stone for us here at QPHC since our blog has now been up and running for 1 month! Unfortunately Kate is still swamped with life, but she was able to help me out this week, so we’ll be having a Song of the Week.

The Olympics are still in full swing and the United States has finally taken the lead both in Gold medals and overall medal count. The US Women’s Soccer team had an awesome quarterfinals win against New Zealand. (If you read my link about out Olympic athletes from last week than you might remember that one of the star players, Megan Rapinoe, and the head coach, Pia Sundhage, are both out lesbians.)

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